Getting use

waking up, growing old or mature isn't a good thing when you realized your mum and dad is growing up or another word OLD.

i have alot of bonding with mummy long long time ago while i have pony tail and started having 2front tooth. Things changed since i reached 13 and since then is history...

Looking back, i realized i changed but she doesn't not. Everyone has a sorrow, dreadful, tearful story of their own to tell. But i think she has becomes a self inflicted sadist.

She's failing, fails and failed to live a happy life because she said her past is too hurtful which leads her can't let go the past or simply move on.

How many of us do not have a happy ending all the time? We are taught by adult when the tough get going, the going get tough. 'When you fall, you simple up on your feet and WALK!' Apparently, she has else mind.

You will be amazed by courages she mange to pull up remembering all details of unhappy moments and she has no spare energy to gain control of her own life anymore nor happiness. Nothing seem to "cold" her down rather than living alone in another country.

A woman of 54yrs old, sooner public will label her 'old citizen' . As we picture old citizen especially woman, i see a friendly smiling grandny and i cant tag this friendly smiling grandny close to her.

What can i do to make her or people who are 'just not happy' to be happy? if is not the issue of money?

KC said, when a person tend to get unhappy for a longer time, they just live unhappy since...

yes, they started to complaint and be a 5cent spectacular;lost sense of gratitude, sense of humour, variant mood swing, mind too cloudy till you cant seem to suck it although with vacuum cleaner turned full blast.

I AINT GOING THIS ROUTE.

YOU?