life chapters: 02/06/2005

Valentine for male soul

hhhm..im not a male with packages...so i wouldn't know if this is the right thing..but i would like to share and get some comment from this, so i gain a better inside view.

How to be a Excellent Toy-friend

1. Girl are very imaginary. They like to imagine (not all but ....) Suprise doesn't have to be costly, expensive but yet can be small, priceless (not neccess diamond), self-made (just hours on a card). I'm sure they don't care if you are Picasso, but what they know when you gift them, they are happy because is truely from you, yourself, your effort, your time, your sincerity, your thoughfulness, your caring and lastly your love.

2. Sometimes they play tantrum because Female brain are tune differently from Male. Female are more expressive than male. Female like to show emotion,expression. you can't accept a female telling you everything she dissatisfied, Always remember their are your girl-friend can't be treated as a male to male talk (except deep talk, and serious issue). Female are tunes into words more, whereby Males are more into action wise. So female will be very conscious on every word you use.

3. Sometimes they play tantrum because, they are shy into telling you something and they are showing some signal so you can ask them...i know is like digging something unknown yet seem dangerous, but how badly can your girl-friend harm you??

4. Sometimes they play tantrum might be changing hormone. Please understand this, not everygirl is build in the same machaniscm...

5. Must understand the Understanding which The more They love you, The more they are trying to protect you. Is In every gene of Female that They have the motherhood in them which some are not conscious what they are doing, but all mean good. Just need to sit down and Talk it out..process and progress might be difficult...but that's not the key word. Conclution and understanding will be the key word.

6. They like to shop, just like you like cars, games, motors, games, football, beer, liquor....Always Remember Female and Male are tune differently...

7. When they are not understanding, you lead. You be the understanding 1. Show her what is like..slowly with T.L.C (Tender, Loving, Care) she will knows.

8. Fight leads nowhere. Patience Is a Knowledge...

9. Never condemn, Never demand but Request.

10. Always be a good listener, only give opinion when asked. Rational and not guide by Emotion.

11. Never try Just to Win over argument, not a win-win situation. Winning is not important as both party is on the same boat, heading the same way just different opinion. Who's winning is not important...Important is togetheness

12. To be in courtship seem so easy nowadays, but staying put together seem like a endless story...Is the Art of Learning Yourself more and Also Accepting The 1 That you Truly Love, Learning to Love IS AN ART every1 must learn...nothing comes easy

13.Happy Valentine Day...

Valentine for female soul

people asked me..am i not going to post anything for So CAll Special Event Valentine....

Throughout my analyse and Survey done...
is better to provide advice and solution than to tell story anymore

To Be A Excellent Gurf-Friend.

1. Always remember that your Boy-Friend is A fren, A closest fren, A trust-worthy, A reliable friend, A sister, A brother....

2. Always remember that Your boy-friend still a friend just the term and label is different that doesnt mean, you can control how he likes to spend his money, his free time, disapprove the thing he does, he act,he thinks, he does, he.....

3. Always be a good listener, only give opinion when asked

4. Always be rational about opinion just as if you are to your friend, not to fall under emotion segment or...
'because you are my boyfriend'
'becuase i don't like, so...'
'because is agaisnt my way, so...'
'because you will be....'

5. Always be general in things

6. Even boy- friend has their own time, they needed to be left alone, just like girls will go shopping within own sex, yamcha and gossip..guy just do it in a differnt way...

7. Patience is a knowlegde, wait for them to think before you shoot...They are generally slow in progress (opps...nolar they are deep thinkers)

8. Never condemn (as you don't condemn your closest friend as well),complaint less but not totally keep inside (make it a habbit only 3 times you will complaint,if nothing happen, no worries, time will come, as patience is a knowledge)...

9. If you want to complaint, talk to them, lay it out. They really not fast in adapting the changes of wind and weather, why sometimes girl- friend plays tantrum or because once a month...although is difficult to talk to your boy-friend, some of them may not understand but please, they wanted to know as much as you willing to tell...

10. Always remember he's your boy-friend not yet Hubby...so there are few things not to cross the line yet, unless both party agree to bear the responsibility and heated argument will arise in future due to those controling and.... Mutual Understanding in Term is very important.

11.It Takes both hand to clap, yes but sometimes also referred to Who clap First.

12. Never try Just to Win over argument, not a win-win situation. Winning is not important as both party is on the same boat, heading the same way just different opinion. Who's winning is not important...Important is togetheness

13. Don't fight for what we consider *huge problem* to them is *peanuts*. because their brain is tune different from the female. So take sometimes more on explaining and talking, not yelling...

14. To be in courtship seem so easy nowadays, but staying put together seem like a endless story...Is the Art of Learning Yourself more and Also Accepting The 1 That you Truly Love, Learning to Love IS AN ART every1 must learn...nothing comes easy

15. Happy Valentine's Day...