romance "loving" or casually living

love is divided into 2 section
usually people only likes to linger on the 1st section, because is always the most romantic, sweetest, delight,enjoyable ride and can make you gone wild, go crazeee....

Is proven that, men can go out with a woman within 4 times and fall over head till toe.
All they need is only 7 minutes to see if he can proceed with the female yet develop and decide " is this the gal i want"

whereby woman, tend to takes a longer time. Even when they accepted the male, they are still very fragile, lack of confident as well as trust.

when men falls in love, they rumble faster than women in the 1st stage.they will be extremely loving, caring, and romantic as well...(does this sound familiar when you first started to date?)this is what i mean, the 1st stage. women acts the other way, in the beginning, women are usually slower...more cooler...dullier...but as time goes by, the engine becomes heater and heater..gradually goes on auto mode. This is because woman is thinking, is this the man i could accept with me..till we grow old. Once they are done with that part...they already decided this is the 1..nothing could stop them, not even a better looking, wealthy man can bring them down, but of cuz this must go through several hardship to show that the man that the woman choose is worthy.

always the 1st stage of dating usually last only about haf a year till a year.
This is the time, where you will have 'i miss you'; 'you miss me?' within 24 hours...your boyfriend became extremely loving...caring...wonderful in everything, knows what u like, like not, call you a couple of times, sms all the day...movie 3 times a week, dine out almost everyday, every night...BUT once honeymoon is gone, the real relationship hardship as well i would say the most wonderful part comes in. This can determine how far can u guy go with each other.
I call it the healthy relationship after the honeymoon.

they are couple who are so used in the honeymoon stage,after months ..when things start to get abit loose, abit dull..they cant take it..they started to compliant - how come you treat me like this now..last time not like this ...how come u don call that often anymore, how come no more email from you, how come..why ..how come, why....this is usually utter by the girl. the boy will feels there isnt anymore spark in the relationship anymore...what use to be fun, now has to becomes a routine, is boring...so they will have people who leave the relationship to start another new 1 thinking is starting a new 1 will bring them back the feeling of excitements, like drinking coke, full with gas...

man are a very sensitive creature...you just need to go deeper beneath the skin to find out .every time when they faces break up. they have hard time coping, they cant tell it out expressively to their peers because the skin seem so thin that by telling them will be a laughing stock. man are thought not to cry since young, which lead them to have no out put..only in put . this will makes them becomes hot- temper, depress , split personalty without them realizing and of cuz, thinking beer is their good friend, without knowing their good friend actually killing them softy, soundly yet surely.

what is intresting about the 2nd part of the relationship, you will notice is not about YOU anymore...is not about ME anymore is about WE, WE of cuz there's still issue about YOU and ME, as long as both can compromise..this is ART , or jus like playing tai chi. from here, you will see whether he will be with you through thick and thin and vice versa. you will get to see if a man is ready to bears the responsibility as well as the woman is ready to settle down, Commitment must be a common language that both party understand what it mean.s some think commitment differently from the other....when once this is bypass, you will have created not only a successful relationship but u have added value and gained harmony, friendship,understanding, tolerance,loyal as well as responsibility..which will leads you guy forever and a day.

if is to count correctly , the 1st stage of relationship usually only last about 10% of the scale of a relatipnship should be...90% is on teh 2nd stage. No doubt the 1st stage is always the sweetest, most memorable ...but really know how to mantain and compromise is a relationship is more exciting and more rewarding ...don you think so?