Sexism Equally

alot of people says ...we live in mil.century now!
man and woman have the equally standard

but through years and personal experiences, yes indeed "very" equally or well said - REVERSE- role !

husband / wife
boy friend / girl friend
friend / enemy

when comes to certain topic, they will all argue. ~1 side or the other
man is much stronger
woman should stay at home and not overly done outside
man should bare the family
woman should keep quiet all the time
man has multiple soulmate or .... is ok
woman has multiple soulmate or.... is nasty
the list goes on ...

lately through my memories , i managed to gather

INCIDENT 1
JL pulled a very extra long face during my cousin wedding diner, i was embarassed because me and JL was sitting with all my relative. My relative get to witness his tantrum. JL is my then BF, 21, Male, almost 6 foot tall.

JL was mad because i did not take any food for him when the dish presented infront of us.
Question is here - isnt this a GUY / Gentleman should do?
answer - the whole night, after he complaint, i took food for him, poured drink for him while my cousin sis and her BF lookinng at me akwardly so do all my relative who share the same table. TALK ABOUT EQUALLY??

INCIDENT 2
Karjin, my net friend...scolded me and asked me to delete his contact numbers from my phone list, facebook , msn etc...

2 days later ...i found out that he deleted me from his list ...msn, facebook ..etc TALK ABOUT EQUALLY?

i think the universe gone wild and berserk...men behaving like girls (double thought , not appropiate to use lady/ ladies) and girls behaving like men (i mean mentally ...not physically)